I recently read an article by a professional photographer in PC Photo Magazine where he and his wife took two pictures of the same scene but from different perspectives. Both were stunning. Both were beautiful. Neither one was greater than the other, but because they each saw something different from behind their lens, they came up with two different pictures.
This got me thinking about life, relationships, church and there is a interesting point to make. How many times do two people or two groups see the same thing, but from different angles, from different viewpoints? Quite often neither is wrong, or maybe neither is right, but because we look at it from behind two different cameras, with different equipment, in different places, the pictures is different. Does that make it bad? Not necessarily.
But consider this, when you enter into the frame our human nature, our sinful human nature, then the perspective that we have can become clouded, shaded and even misinterpreted. What one person said, or meant, is often taken a different way. Then we stand back and the picture we took for someone else to see looks like some impressionist painting, and we ask, "Where did that come from?"
"That's not what I said." "That's not what I meant." "Where did they get that idea?" And now we find ourselves asking these questions. It happens to all of us. The trick here is to recognize that we are fighting against, as St. Paul says, the old man, whose first impression is negativity. It is also considering our position first, and maybe even looking at the other person with some ulterior motive. This is the sinful self, our human nature, trying to exert itself into a negative attitude or outlook on the other person. It is a struggle, a daily struggle, to fight against this. St Paul says in Romans 7, "For I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out. For what I do is not the good I want to do; no, the evil I do not want to - this I keep on doing." If it happened to St. Paul, I know that it's gonna be tough on me as well!
This even happens in the church. Maybe more so in the church because it is not a place of "holier than everyone else," but a place where a bunch of sinners gather together. Satan works hard on each person in the church to make sure that the perspective we have, even with each other as Christians, is tainted and twisted by thoughts and feelings of mistrust, or past hurt feelings, or unforgiven situations. More than just "thinking" better about the other person, but it is important to remember that while yes, they, and ourselves are sinners, we are also saints, made clean, and righteous because of Christ.
What if, when we have the urge to see someone through our lens in which those tendencies of the old man can easily surface, we place a filter over that lens, that places the cross in front of our view. I believe what this does for us is it reminds us first that Christ lives within us and through His strength, we have the ability to trust and respond to the other person in a Christ like manner. It also helps us to view the other person with an attitude that shares love and concern first, not mistrust and apprehension.
And once we can see people through the lens of the cross of Christ, not only our perspective changes, but so does theirs. My prayer is that same prayer St. Paul had in Romans 12, "Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves." In walks, in our talks, and in our perspectives, may we also honor one another above ourselves, being sincere in our love for each other.